Category Archives: Potpourri

A Calgary Hitmen teddy bear for Bennett

Bennett had an appointment at the Alberta Children’s Hospital this past Monday. From time to time we need to see a specialist there and we were meeting with his neurologist to discuss his poor sleeping habits, overall development and delayed myelination (many kids with 18q- show delayed growth of the myelin sheath that protects their nerves and increases the speed at which nerve impulses travel; an MRI has shown this to be the case with Bennett).

Toward the end of the appointment a nurse came into the room and led Bennett off to get a toy for being so good. I expected him to return with a sticker or similar but he came back holding a giant teddy bear, thanks to the Calgary Hitmen.

Bennett cuddles the bear he was given by a Calgary Hitmen player during a visit to Alberta Children's Hospital.

Bennett cuddles the bear he was given during a visit to Alberta Children’s Hospital.

Members of the major junior hockey team were at the hospital handing out teddy bears donated during the team’s annual Teddy Bear Toss game the night before. The annual tradition sees fans throw new teddy bears (wrapped in plastic bags) onto the ice after the team scores its first goal. This year the effort collected 21,453 stuffed bears for over 50 local charities including the Salvation Army, Calgary Women’s Emergency Shelter and Alberta Children’s Hospital.

Calgary Hitmen surrounded by teddy bears on the ice. Photo by Gavin Young, Calgary Herald.

Calgary Hitmen surrounded by teddy bears on the ice. Photo by Gavin Young, Calgary Herald.

I think it’s fantastic that events like this exist to bring sick, suffering or homeless children a smile close to Christmas. Bennett is fortunate his health is good and there will be presents under the tree this year, but to see him sporting such a huge grin after receiving a stuffie in a place that, for many kids, is associated with needles, surgery and sickness, was simply awesome. Thanks for making his day!

I love a Santa Claus parade!

Kids love parades. Mine had never been to one until this past weekend, but they fully embraced it. I think it was the steady stream of candy canes handed out to them, or perhaps the anticipation of seeing Santa Claus riding on the final float. Whatever it was, they loved the lights and the waving and the crowd’s excitement and didn’t seem to mind standing around in chilly Banff for over an hour.

Avery and two friends wait for Santa (and more candy canes).

Avery and two friends wait for Santa (and more candy canes).

The Santa Claus parade down Banff Avenue takes place every year in early December. It concludes the town’s Christmas in the Rockies festival and is a kid-favourite.

Personally, I am not a parade person. Maybe it’s because I’m a jaded adult (or it’s the painful memories from my elementary school pom-pom years, marching in the Evergreen town parade), but I really do not enjoy standing around for hours watching decorated flatbed trucks filled with waving people crawl by at two kilomteres an hour. It’s the reason I’ve only been to the Calgary Stampede parade once.

Parades involve a lot of waving. Your arm will be tired.

Parades involve a lot of waving. Your arm will be tired.

But the great thing about Banff’s Santa Claus parade (and so I’ve been told, any small-town parade), is how short it is. With only 22 floats it lasts an hour tops. ( And I can easily wave at cute Aussie parade marchers wearing snowflake T-shirts for an hour.) What’s more, you can show up five minutes before the parade starts and get a spot right along the side of the road with no one obstructing your view. There aren’t even any barricades so kids can run into the parade route between floats and grab fallen candy canes off the street. And of course, saving Santa for the last float is a smart strategy to keep kids excited for the duration. “It’s Santa! It’s Santa, Mommy!” Bennett yelled. Avery was excited too, but she had more important concerns (like stuffing 30 candy canes into her pocket).

I’m sure Avery and Bennett will be bugging us to watch Calgary’s Stampede Parade next summer. If we can be guaranteed front-row seating, no wait, copious amounts of free candy and the best floats packed in to an hour, we’ll be there.

A year of blogging

Today is not only American Thanksgiving (happy turkey day!), it marks the one year anniversary since I started blogging. I began Drink – Play – Love as a way to share parenting, travel and cocktail adventures; to tell the weird and wonderful family stories (Sea Monkeys) and drink recipes (Daisy Duke) that would probably never make it to print in one of my other writing outlets.

So far I’ve written about Bennett’s autism and genetic condition, our fundraising campaign for his school and our amazing trip to Tanzania. On a humourous note I chronicled Bennett’s war against his underpants, our misadventures in Ixtapa and a playground fundrasier that went off the rails after party-goers drank too much rum punch.

The stories that have resonated most with readers? Personal ones like Avery’s bucket list and my rant against back-to-school shopping.

I am still having fun with Drink – Play – Love and I hope you are enjoying it. Please let me know what you think!