Monthly Archives: December 2012

Bennett tries new things

When Bennett was three the psychologist at his school created a social story for our family called Bennett tries new things. The book showed Bennett holding a hockey stick, trick-or-treating and swimming; in short, things he doesn’t do very frequently. The idea behind the story was that if I read it to him a lot he would become more open to doing things out of his comfort zone.

Eighteen months later I think Bennett has finally taken the book to heart (yes, change in an autistic child sometimes happens at a glacial pace). This weekend he hit three milestones and we are incredibly proud parents.

1. Bennett skied! For real, at Canada Olympic Park. Under the expert tutelage of COP instructor Eric Gerstenbuhler, Bennett got the hang of his French fries on the bunny hill. He still needs a lot of work on his pizza (it’s kind of important for that skill called stopping); fortunately he has another private lesson with Eric next Sunday. I am writing all about Bennett’s first lesson for Snowseekers and the story will be up later this week.

See what I mean about the French fries?

See what I mean about the French fries?

2. Bennett hung ornaments on the tree for the first time! We are so happy our little guy wanted to be part of the tree trimming tradition this year, though it looks like he inherited his sister’s knack for hanging 10 ornaments all on the same branch.

Bennett hangs an ornament!

Trimming the tree.

3. Bennett had a conversation with Santa! He has sat on the fat man’s lap in previous years and suffered through the experience. This year, however, he actually answered Santa’s questions.

Santa: “What do you want for Christmas?”

Bennett: “How about a cookie?” (In truth he had spotted another child eating a cookie.) Still, it’s progress. Way to go, B!

Santa is stoked he only has to bring Bennett a cookie!

Santa is stoked he only has to bring Bennett a cookie!

Drink of the Week: Appleton Estate 50 Year Old rum

Ever since I visited Barbados two years ago I have developed an appreciation for dark rum. I love its distinct flavour in a rum punch, dark and stormy or mai tai. But I also like sipping an aged rum straight up or on ice, as I chronicled in a Spirited Calgary column earlier this year, so I felt pretty special when a 100 mL sample bottle of Appleton Estate’s new 50 Year Old rum — Jamaica Independence Reserve — arrived earlier this fall.

It smells like liquid brown sugar but  tastes of smooth rum with hints of vanilla and cinnamon. Yum.

It smells like liquid brown sugar but tastes of smooth rum with hints of vanilla and cinnamon.

Now, 100 mL may not sound like a very big sample, but considering a 750 mL bottle of the 50 Year Old blend retails for about $5,ooo US, you do the math (that’s about $33 per sip).

The rums that comprise the Jamaica Independence Reserve were specifically set down in 1962 and then managed over time so that, a half century later, the island nation would have a national drink worthy of commemorating 50 years of independence. It’s also rare (only 800 bottles have been created).

Since I’m not a collector, I have a hard time getting my head around paying that much for anything that comes in a bottle. While I enjoyed sipping this rum, most recently on a chilly evening, it didn’t blow my mind in the way I would expect at $33/sip. Sure it smells heavenly, tastes of vanilla and cinanamon in a strong rummy way, is smooth on the finish and warms the belly appropriately, but so do many other sipping rums.

On the other hand, there are bottles of scotch and wine that cost $5,000, so why not rum? If you can afford it, this would make a yummy Christmas gift for a rum-obsessed friend. It even comes in a bespoke crystal decanter. Fancy. And exclusive. As pirate-Santa would say, “Yo ho ho!”

A Calgary Hitmen teddy bear for Bennett

Bennett had an appointment at the Alberta Children’s Hospital this past Monday. From time to time we need to see a specialist there and we were meeting with his neurologist to discuss his poor sleeping habits, overall development and delayed myelination (many kids with 18q- show delayed growth of the myelin sheath that protects their nerves and increases the speed at which nerve impulses travel; an MRI has shown this to be the case with Bennett).

Toward the end of the appointment a nurse came into the room and led Bennett off to get a toy for being so good. I expected him to return with a sticker or similar but he came back holding a giant teddy bear, thanks to the Calgary Hitmen.

Bennett cuddles the bear he was given by a Calgary Hitmen player during a visit to Alberta Children's Hospital.

Bennett cuddles the bear he was given during a visit to Alberta Children’s Hospital.

Members of the major junior hockey team were at the hospital handing out teddy bears donated during the team’s annual Teddy Bear Toss game the night before. The annual tradition sees fans throw new teddy bears (wrapped in plastic bags) onto the ice after the team scores its first goal. This year the effort collected 21,453 stuffed bears for over 50 local charities including the Salvation Army, Calgary Women’s Emergency Shelter and Alberta Children’s Hospital.

Calgary Hitmen surrounded by teddy bears on the ice. Photo by Gavin Young, Calgary Herald.

Calgary Hitmen surrounded by teddy bears on the ice. Photo by Gavin Young, Calgary Herald.

I think it’s fantastic that events like this exist to bring sick, suffering or homeless children a smile close to Christmas. Bennett is fortunate his health is good and there will be presents under the tree this year, but to see him sporting such a huge grin after receiving a stuffie in a place that, for many kids, is associated with needles, surgery and sickness, was simply awesome. Thanks for making his day!